5 Lessons I learned in High School That Had Nothing to do With Class

As my school career comes to an end, I can only think how different myself and everyone around me are. The following are the 5 most important lessons I have learned throughout my years in school.

5) The friends you started out with may not be the same as the ones you end with. We all have friends that we have known forever, especially in a small town. These friends are what I like to call situational friends, and these friends may seem like forever friends and the most amazing friends, but they probably aren’t. In fact, they probably aren’t even good friends. These friends will probably stay in touch for a while and then you may not talk for a while, or even ever again, because you will probably learn that you have actually nothing in common with these friends and if your path’s don’t naturally cross in the real world neither of you will make an effort to make them. This is totally okay; this is a really good thing.

4) The things that seem super upsetting now will get better IF YOU MAKE AN EFFORT TO GET OVER IT. tragedies happen, real tragedies and not real tragedies, but I can attest to the fact that in your senior year something will probably happen that is a real tragedy. This tragedy could be a loved one dying, someone you don’t know well dying, this tragedy could be as simple as crashing your car. Whatever the tragedy, it is going to affect you, and you will probably think about it all the time. The tragedy is probably even going to impair the simplest of tasks because it’s all you can think about. The tragedy happened and now you need to grieve, which, if you let the natural grieving period happen, you will get over it. After this, however you need move on, which is hard and it won’t happen on its own; you need to do whatever you need to do to get over it. When tragedies happened to me, every time I was close to crying or to thinking about my tragedy, I would tell myself not cry and to move one, but it still took months and months if actively re-affirming that I was okay and that it was going to be okay. You will be okay too.

3)You may think you have it all together, but that could change overnight. This is a serious one, like very serious. In December of grade ten, I had EVERYTHING figured out. I knew what I would

take in school, where I would go, where I would live, what I would do with my life, when I would have kids, how many kids I would have, what their names would be. But then, suddenly one day, I was laying in bed and thinking…. Do I even want to have kids? Do I even want to be a teacher? I don’t even like Melville. Overnight, I changed my mind, for years I had had the exact same plan, and I was so okay with this plan that when it changed my mind I was so afraid that I literally felt as though I was a different person, and I was a different person. I grew, and you will grow too.

2) Sometimes all you need is to look out for yourself, even if it means losing people. Remember people can be dead weight. Never change who you are because others won’t grow with you. People will always hate what you are doing. They will always be afraid of you changing or growing, and they will try to keep you at the same level as them. This is not okay. You are a worthy human who needs to be treated as you deserve. Dropping dead weight isn’t a loss; it’s a gain. Sometimes it is not about what you lose but what you gain losing it. Everyone matures at different paces and this means you will most likely grow apart from people who you once were synomous with. This is okay too.

1)This is the last thing, and it is probably the most important thing. You may be a totally different person now then you were at the beginning of high school, or the year, month, and week. You might not even be the same as the person you woke up as this morning. At this age, we change every second of every day. Your goal today is probably not the same as it was yesterday. As we mature, we see things differently and we want different things. Last week, you may have only wanted to work and not go to university; this week, you want to go to university and further your learning. You are not the same person you were yesterday and you are most defiantly not the person you will end as. Remember, just because you had egg whites for breakfast doesn’t mean you can’t have cupcakes or lemon cake *koskie* for supper.

Everyone makes mistakes along the way, and everyone beats themselves up for these mistakes, but the mistakes you make today don’t define who you are or will be tomorrow. These lessons changed me and made me see things in a whole new way. These things happen to almost everyone and when they happen to you remember that you are not alone.

Sincerely, Morgan

Is Your Bias Showing?

On June 30, 2015, an article titled You’ve been warned, America, gay marriage is just the beginning  by Fox News is written by Cal Thomas and the article has a title that could be taken either way, on one hand, it grabs attention and clearly shows the topic of the article; on the other hand, it seems like a real warning, like gay marriage, is something to be feared. once you click on the article you see this photo, a rather stunning photo of a pride flag with the supreme court in the background being waved by John Becker.John Becker, 30, of Silver Spring, Md., waves a rainbow flag in support of gay marriage outside of the Supreme Court in Washington, Thursday June 25, 2015. The same-sex marriage ruling is among the remaining to be released before the term ends at the end of June. (AP Photo/Jacquelyn Martin)

This photo is the very first thing you see, this placement allows readers to be very sure that the article is in fact about gay marriage. Seeing this can go one of two ways, (a) it can entice the reader either because they are excited about the changes being made or it can

(a) it can entice the reader either because they are excited about the changes being made or because they oppose same-sex marriage or

(b) it can anger the reader because of the confirmation of the topic of the article.

so which ever way it has been interpreted by the reader this photo helps readers immediately develop their own bias. The photo also shows the subject of the flag and Becker being held higher than the supreme court, this can show us that the photographer sees the changes as positive and a is welcoming to the idea in question.  In the article you see facts about the ruling, the facts include:

  • it was a close call (5-4)
  • it allowed churches and religious institutions to still preach and teach that Same-sex marriage is wrong

These are included so those against or those on the fence of the topic can feel like their side was heard and their beliefs are being validated, this means Fox News doesn’t have to commit to anything except publishing the article. With no commitment to either side, Fox News doesn’t risk losing any readers. This part of the article you lose a bit of the bias, the pictures indicate PRO gay marriage but these facts seem to show a how maybe not all people are PRO gay marriage.

Further on in the article, it seems there is a shift in the topic of the article. The topic goes from gay marriage to better supreme court judge selection. Yes, that’s right a great change occurred and all people seem to care about is how the supreme court didn’t follow the constitution and why better judge selections need to be made.

The article says:

“This is diversity? No, this is enforced orthodoxy of a different kind and thus in violation of the Constitution and the special protection the Founders gave to people of faith”

This quote, however, is not even where the bias against gay rights are shown it is in the very last sentence Cal Thomas wrote

“If the zeitgeist and politics are more persuasive to some justices than the Constitution and the intent of the Founders, then justices should be held accountable by the political system and their terms limited.”

Both of the quotes seem to make equal rights seem like trends and irrelevant parts of society that are should not be recognized.  The article omits information like once interracial marriage was illegal and deemed wrong; in fact, this was only legalized in 1967 and the article blatantly overlooks the fact that all forms of marriage are legitimate and deserve the same kind of respect.

The article also included a video further discussing the topic which is worth the watch: master.m3u8

when reading the article there were no statistics or crowd counts, a few were revealed in the video, however, that definitely were impactful. The article did have an overtone of disapproval for the decision of the supreme court and it is not something those not looking could see, the media has a way of making you feel like you are on their side even if their side is narrow-minded.


De-Tangling Disney’s Stereotypes

The movie Tangled was born as a spin-off of Rapunzel, the movie was a way that Disney could transition into the future of Disney movies AKA no more damsels in distress sitting around waiting for a prince, I mean, I could sit around and wait to be saved by a prince IF the prince saving me brings a pizza… Or wings.  Anyway, Seriously I don’t think Disney hit the nail on the head with this one, From the start of the movie the opening shot of Flynn Ryder’s wanted poster and Flynn Ryder’s narration of “It’s a funny story and it isn’t even mine” yeah Flynn it isn’t yours, you masculine freak and kidnapping a child it also NOT FUNNY!


What about the fact that the main character Rapunzel, a woman, who has been locked away in a tower for 18 making her naive is saved by a man who has seen it all. . .

The movie has a lot of male characters, like a lot, a lot. Here’s a list:

  • Flynn Ryder
  • Pascal (The Chameleon)
  • Maximus (The Horse)
  • Pub thugs
  • King Fredric
  • The Stabbington Brothers (Flynn’s goons)

These are just the characters in the movie that have one of the main roles, Here’s a list of Female main Characters:

  • Rapunzel (“Blondie”)
  • Cassandra (Rapunzel after her hair is cut)
  • Mother Gothel

So for a movie that is about a PrincESS with magical hair being kidnapped, locked away for years, and having only one dream to see the magical lights, that sure is a lot of men! The best part aside from the testosterone-fueled male lead Flynn being a little bit too self-confident is the Chauvinistic name he calls Rapunzel, “Blondie”. Yes, another movie or really another man describing a woman by her looks! If this doesn’t hit home for every woman out there I’m not sure what would! Truthfully this is probably my biggest problem with the whole movie, Oh how I hate shallow people, especially in today’s world where we have entire apps based upon matching because of mutual physical attraction, which is fine, but people can  not be judged by their looks solely. It’s absurd that a nickname based on her hair was even thought to be appropriate! This nickname is also a problem because of it “Blondie” which is generally associated with being dumb or ditzy, saying’s like “Dumb Blonde” or “Blonde moment” are all ways of generalizing the intellectual abilities of a female in this case; she is also very clearly not a dumb blonde because she has charted stars which she taught HERSELF and many other talents. 

The movie also has a predominantly white cast, even the horse is a white horse which truthfully I would see as a coincidence but others probably disagree with this. I found this list of characters in the film. Out of the last hope I have and my true love of Disney I had to google “is Disney’s Tangled racist?”  The results are kind of spewed honestly, I am a little bit shocked at what I encountered, there is a lot of fighting over what is racist and what is not and really just a lot of information that I honestly didn’t even think of. I think if you have a chance you should read over the post “Racism And Sexism in Tangled – or, Okay WHAT Are These People Smoking?”  I think that could find things in it that you may not have seen before.

I’m having a really hard time putting aside my love for Disney here but when I read the above post I definitely found some things that I agreed with and some things I knew were probably true but I wanted to not believe. The Above article made me think. What do I actually think? so I found some charts about eye color and hair color

 This is showing the eye color of the princess’s.

 This shows the color of princess’s hair

These charts actually made me think about the fact that the hair color in Disney is pretty varied, they even have a princess with white hair. White hair! So maybe we don’t give enough credit to Disney. Also, let’s think a little bit about the original story’s that the movies are based on, For example:

  • Tangled is based on Rapunzel 
    • In the story Rapunzel she has long BLONDE flowing hair which is generally the hair type and color which is most appealing to the German people of which the story originated.
    • In the original story, the long beautiful hair was brought on by the mother eating a plant while she was pregnant to save her life, however, in this case, it was a rapunzel plant.
    • In Rapunzel, she was not kidnapped but rather given to the witch after the father was caught stealing, to spare his own life. The couple were desperate to have a child and then just gave her away, so kinda strange considering the circumstances.

These things shouldn’t take away from the fact that Disney generally, follows that same type of woman but they do take some things from the original story too. let us not forget that some things aren’t meant to be harmful, in fact, lots of things aren’t meant to insult people it just happens.

Now again let’s move away from defending Disney and let us move on to some more things I don’t like. like how Mother Gothel is a genuinely two-faced character who only is nice when she needs something and when her body is no longer persuasive enough to get her what she wants.

The following video shows us an antagonist analysis of Mother Gothel

This video does a good job of talking about some the character traits of Mother Gothel as well as the general traits of antagonist. the CriticalHit  guys have some pretty good video’s on other aspects of movies so check them out. I also found another video by the title: everything there is wrong about tangles in 14 minutes or less by CinemaSins , but this video is a little long so feel free to check it and have your eyes opened by things that seem meaningless but are kind of funny!

Okay this long post is over and it is kind of boring but I hope you learnt something beneficial. I also hope that your love for Disney has be destryoyed because that wasn’t my intention and I know that mine is still there!

Privileged People

There are many forms of privilege

  • Racial privilege
    • Racial privilege is usually equated with white privilege since power, money, and influence tends to be concentrated among Caucasians in Western Europe and North America
  • Gender Privilege
    • Male-identified, masculine individuals still hold a level of privilege over people of other genders.
  • Passing
    • Passing is the ability to appear to belong to another group. The ability to pass is itself a privilege because it allows an individual to claim the advantages of a more privileged group.

The initial idea of privilege is something that seems like a plus in life. However, there is down sides to being one of the “privileged” people. Guilt. Being guilted by privilege could be compared to be guilted by being a survivor of an accident or being guilty for being born into a family below the poverty line.

Having a privileged life is something that was granted to you generally at birth when it comes to the three types if privileges listed above. Each privilege give a different form of benefits, for example racial privilege generally is connected to money, power and/or influence, similar to gender privilege which is associated with white males and masculinity. And finally passing, that means you can belong to one group and get the benefits of the other, an example of this comes from my favourite TV show, Daphne on Switched at Birth,  is white but both her parents are Puerto Rican meaning she is a minority. Daphne was raised in a low income neighbourhood and went to a school that was less then average, however, because of Daphne’s skin colour she can pass for being white meaning she isn’t subject to discrimination she might have otherwise been subjected too.

The problems with privilege is that some people aren’t okay with accepting they have privilege. It’s understandable because such an emphasis is put on hard work and earning you keep that people become uncomfortable with the idea of being handed something. However, these privileges are given to you at birth and whether you feel like you are given advantages or not you probably are without these privileges being acknowledged. The following video has some good points in it with respect to Macklemore White Privilege II Song  .

So this video has some really good points and it you don’t feel like watching it here are some of the highlights.

  • White people alive today are not responsible for slavery but white people still reap the benefits like black people wear the scars.
  • Just because you don’t acknowledge racism or police brutality doesn’t mean it doesn’t still exists.
  • You can never put too much effort in to issues of justice and equality.

The video has good points up until about the 3:20 mark, then she goes off on a bit of a tangent.  Her point is that you can’t ignore the problem and expect it to disappear because it is still going to be there, but  I fully agree with the points I listed above.


As hard as it may be we have to address the fact that some things really are just handed to us, these privileges have to be acknowledged. This should not make us feel guilty or responsible for past wrong doings but make us realize that we need to change sometimes.

 Whether or not you are believe in God or not, I think everyone can appreciate the Serenity Prayer. If you break it down to connect with this topic:

  • You can’t change your gender, race, or appearance
  • You can change the fact that you feel guilty and responsible
  • you can even help people who are stuck in out dated and ignorant ways of racism see that everyone deserves the same amount of justice as you.

Nobody should feel guilty for their race and above that nobody should ever be punished for their race or gender or sexuality! You can not change the past but everyone plays a helping hand in how equality works in our future! The best way to make sure you are doing your part is to educated your self on the topics, we have every resource available to us we should use them properly! Not sure where to start? Start here! Or here!

It starts with education and ends with equality

What are Magazines Really Doing to Us?

Magazines begin to target people as soon as they are old enough to read, maybe even before that magazines begin to target kids with bright pictures of toys. Magazines may seem like a dying art with new forms of media being introduced but even if you aren’t buying them they are still on the shelfs being seen by consumers.



Magazines such as Seventeen and Teen Vogue are targeted toward young girls, the pages of these magazines are plastered with beautiful models with expensive things promoting the idea that to be cool you need these things! These magazines use product placement with popular celebrities in order to sell the products AND the celebrities; here’s the problem: THE PRODUCTS THEY ARE PROMOTING ARE UNREALISTIC TO THE AVERAGE PERSON, so are the body types, life styles, and fashion these celebrities have, this however, is not common knowledge to the young girls reading the magazine which for them means something to strive for no matter the cost. The pages and pages of supermodels takes a toll on the minds of young girls, society has an unspoken definition of perfect that really doesn’t need words to describe it at all, it sprawled out everywhere….


Both these pictures show things that without the help of a computer you could not achieve:

  • Her skin is flawless. Like everywhere, no where is there a mark or un-smooth spot on her body and her skin is also clearly white washed.
  • Her hair is perfect and definitely created by multiple hair stylist and touch ups
  • Oh yeah and she is Beyonce.

These magazines portray an unrealistic message to teens that is not accurate to how teens behave or dress. The clothing in magazines can cost $100 of dollars for outfits that teens wouldn’t wear anyways.


Exhibit A 

This is from 2 years ago and in 2014 Ariana Grande was 21. So at 21 she was modelling for a back to school advertisement that was targeted at girls ages 12-14. On the front page of this article you can  read lines like “For your prettiest fist day” and “Clear up your skin now” titles that focus on superficial self improvement rather than positive titles with goals to make girls feel better about themselves right now and not in the future. At 12 these girls may not have even had acne yet, and you are showing this “teen” who has been through these thing already and no longer has to worry about them sure makes it easy for girls to think that they are not good enough.

Magazines don’t only have beauty standards for girls there are definitely beauty standards for guys too:

jeremy-rennerIn this magazine for men you see first off an actor famous for his roles in Marvel films, he is in good shape and obviously looking posed in a way that would make him more attractive looking and more fit. The magazine is covered in  headlines all appealing to men ” HI-DEF ABS”, “STRIP AWAY BELLY FAT!”. All headlines that have one goal truthfully in mind:



womens-healthLet’s take a look at this magazine, a women health issue that at first glance looks nothing like the mens health magazine. However, the magazine once the titles have been read could almost be interchangeable to the mens “Flat Stomach Finally” very similar to the “HI-DEF ABS” in the guys magazine. With closer analyzation you could pretty much swap the male and female rolls an still have the same magazines, but why is this? The male and female bodies are basically different planets and they certainly look different so why could the magazines be so much alike?

Because just like I stated earlier, the common goal of magazines is to be sexually attractive!

So do teenagers try to reach these standards? Of course they do! People often underestimate the power the media plays in the mind of a teenager. Teenagers see power, beauty and success as that gates of happiness and the key to everything. This is almost like a yin yang scenario, it’s good to have goal and something to strive for however, it can be challenging to strive for something that can be achieved or is going to take more then some early mornings in the gym. Teens fixate, a teenager with strong will power can be very dangerous, especially when motivated by the power of the media and the pressure of feeling not enough mostly because teens lack the ability to see in to the future ‘if it hurts right now it’s going to hurt forever’.

Magazines are a place where we see our dreams come true on other people, we see all these amazing things but we don’t see, the cost monetary and mentally and we also don’t see that everything in this magazine is probably funded by the brands you see advertised and they are probably not funding you.


What is Holistic Nutrition?

By definition Holistic nutrition is all about eating healthy food as close to its natural state as possible for optimum health and well-being. But Holistic is characterized by comprehension of the parts of something as intimately interconnected and explicable only by reference to the whole. Also the process of providing or obtaining the food necessary for health and growth is the definition Nutrition, these are all very different definitions but are all vital in your bodies total health.

My goal to be a holistic nutritionist stemmed from refining my original goal to be a regular nutritionist. A holistic nutritionist focuses more on the body as a whole, mind, body and soul not just the food you are eating and the liquids you are drinking. If you would like to learn more about being a holistic nutritionist or how you can become one check you this website!

Media Log 1: 3 Things That Definitely Influenced You This Year

Everyone has it, it’s big, it’s bold, it’s tucked in your pocket every second of everyday. It’s the internet. The internet is something that is so big you can find out things didn’t even want to know about yourself or maybe things you wanted to forget, like your first twitter page… Anyway, this year we gained tools that basically help us look fabulous with out even getting out of bed, or share what we are doing live with the rest or the world and the ability to do this with simple to use apps.

Me looking Fabulous
Me Looking Fabulous
Here’s One More

The exact date that snapchat began to allow us to send snaps with crazy glasses or wonky faces was September 15, 2015. After this date an influx of hilarious and somewhat scary pictures flew through cyberspace to your phones and became the only way to send photos to everyone, people went insane over spitting rainbows, flower crowns and over the top makeup effects.

People young and old use snapchat and the filters it offers, I personally went crazy over these filters for the same reason everyone did, insecurities. These filters are a mask, didn’t put on make up but still want to send a selfie to your crush? Use the flower crown, not only does it perfect your skin but it also has a face slimming effect. Kind of don’t want to be seen at all? Well periodically snapchat has filters that completely cover up your face like the talking pug or super cute deer with a voice changer, these filters make you into pretty much whatever you are feeling that day without even trying.

Last One
Last One

To put it simply, these filters ‘take the edge off’ figuratively and literally and maybe help you add creativity to your pictures with out spending hours on a selfie that only last 10 seconds. If there is one thing that the popularity of these filters tell us about our generation is that we are obsessed with peoples perception of us and the things we post.







blog-post-picturesI think we all remember the first time we got the notification “Mark Zuckerberg is live, let them know you are watching!” and of course you clicked it didn’t you? and you also hit about 1000 hearts too, right? Well, live video took social media to a whole new level on April 6, 2016 when Facebook CEO took to the stage and launched a live video of him and his team launching the Facebook live feature available to every Facebook user. Yep all 1.66 billion of us can share us eating a salad will all of our friends. This option literally made social media a place where you could experience things live that you may not have been able to experience other wise like a that JB concert you couldn’t get tickets to, but being the kind soul Justin is had his publicist go live. beliebable? Not only did celebrities go nuts over this but so did a lot of regular people, you had gym junkies bring you their workouts, makeup artists give live makeup lessons and even businesses announcing contests or deals they offer. People loved the live video because it was a way connect instanly through video and also allow viewers to ask questions immediately, it also allows a personal contact with your followers that you might not otherwise had, on top of that it gives your followers a more friend like connection with you which is good for you and them. People have an overwhelming need for connection to be sure they are not alone.

Finally we have reached the end with probably the single most influential object of this century, yes thats right we have reached the cellular phone.


The evolution of the cell phone changed the way we live our lives, no longer would we have to search on end for a quarter for the payphone or go without a camera in your pocket. The cell phone has changed our lives and society so much that laws had to be changed to adapt to this piece of technology that would literally change everyones idea of convenience. 1973 was year that was defiently a turning point towards today’s society’s ideals. To give you a glimpse of just how much the cell phone changed our lives i want you to answer the following questions honestly

  • When given the choice after a long day do would you rather go for a walk with a friend or FaceTime with them from the couch?
  • If you have a question for someone in the same house, school or building would you rather send a quick text or call or go for a walk down the hall or up the stairs to speak face to face with them?
  • When you need to cool off after a difficult day, would you rather sit on the couch and unwind with a movie or do something more physical (yoga, jogging, etc..)?

These question couldn’t have even been answered in the 1970’s because luxuries like FaceTime didn’t even exist, which just shows us the generation gap between now and then. Just think about your day today, when you woke up, what woke you up? your phone alarm probably, what about the first thing you did? was it checking emails in the bathroom or scrolling your news feeds while drinking your coffee? didn’t know what to make for supper? Pinterest probably helped. We are a dependant society and really utilize the resources we have but maybe as a society it’s time to step back and look at the sunset IRL not just on our screen.

Could it be time to reevaluate our answers the these questions?